the stayover last night was fun. even though the movie marathon didn't get moving as smoothly. trainspotting shouldn't even have been on the menu, sigh. not that I caught much of it. hah. so miss congeniality was left on for the early hours for lack of a better choice, definitely not the best time for such a movie (if ever there is one. for me, that is. haha). maybe it's just that we started off with memento, probably one of the best thrillers I've seen. twisted, the way I like it. not like the failure of a wrongly-twisted trainspotting. talking with friends through the night is therapeutic for me. and as we did the myers briggs personailty thing and as I've always known, and re-confirmed yesterday, I'm a high I, for introvert. which means big groups aren't for me. which also means last night was good for Is I guess. and I've changed from a INFJ in secondary school to INTJ yesterday. and was what some of the things mentioned true. I couldn't have written it better myself. some extracts I've put here:

http://www.personalitypage.com/INTJ.html
"INTJs are ambitious, self-confident, deliberate, long-range thinkers. Many INTJs end up in engineering or scientific pursuits, although some find enough challenge within the business world in areas which involve organizing and strategic planning. They dislike messiness and inefficiency, and anything that is muddled or unclear. They value clarity and efficiency, and will put enormous amounts of energy and time into consolidating their insights into structured patterns.

INTJs are natural leaders, although they usually choose to remain in the background until they see a real need to take over the lead. When they are in leadership roles, they are quite effective, because they are able to objectively see the reality of a situation, and are adaptable enough to change things which aren't working well. They are the supreme strategists - always scanning available ideas and concepts and weighing them against their current strategy, to plan for every conceivable contingency.

Other people may have a difficult time understanding an INTJ. They may see them as aloof and reserved. Indeed, the INTJ is not overly demonstrative of their affections, and is likely to not give as much praise or positive support as others may need or desire. That doesn't mean that he or she doesn't truly have affection or regard for others, they simply do not typically feel the need to express it."

that last paragraph resonates. loud.

http://typelogic.com/intj.html
"To outsiders, INTJs may appear to project an aura of "definiteness", of self-confidence. This self-confidence, sometimes mistaken for simple arrogance by the less decisive, is actually of a very specific rather than a general nature; its source lies in the specialized knowledge systems that most INTJs start building at an early age. When it comes to their own areas of expertise -- and INTJs can have several -- they will be able to tell you almost immediately whether or not they can help you, and if so, how. INTJs know what they know, and perhaps still more importantly, they know what they don't know.

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Personal relationships, particularly romantic ones, can be the INTJ's Achilles heel. While they are capable of caring deeply for others (usually a select few), and are willing to spend a great deal of time and effort on a relationship, the knowledge and self-confidence that make them so successful in other areas can suddenly abandon or mislead them in interpersonal situations.

This happens in part because many INTJs do not readily grasp the social rituals; for instance, they tend to have little patience and less understanding of such things as small talk and flirtation (which most types consider half the fun of a relationship). To complicate matters, INTJs are usually extremely private people, and can often be naturally impassive as well, which makes them easy to misread and misunderstand."

well put.